opportunity is something that comes and goes. change is a sign of opportunity not destruction or failure. I think I've lived my live as change was something I had to accept and it was hard to accept but I knew that in the end I would have to anyway. but now I'm realizing that change is truthfully something that is an opportunity for you that you don't really know the outcome of yet; until you've decided to spend your energy analyzing change and figuring out how it will change, then. but only then will you know what is to come. when you know what has came before you know what to look for right, well in certain situations yes, but what about the other ones. in those situations you must live in the very present moment you are in instead of in the future or past in your head. you must be fully immersed into the world conscious knowing what you want to know. I'm really just talking to me but to you reading this I may changing your whole perspective on change. I think that change isn't a bad thing. unless you let change happen you didn't want, then oui its bad. but in those moments you can control how you change with the change even when you didn't want to you learn how to be open to change you learn how to be open minded. your very heart warming presence that every living being has warm or cold, sad or mad, its all our soul our connection to source our feelings is what make us alive. so we need to learn how to live with and in change not around it.